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Wednesday, April 15, 2009

Same Sex Relationship

Same sex relationship is very rampant nowadays. A gay, bisexual, transgendered, and a girl to girl, boy to boy and lesbian relationship. It is often ask, why is it possible to happen?. Maybe there are unresolved issues that they’ve just find an outlet to divert or exert in such behavior. Or maybe in the family background, on how they brought up. Or in their environment?. Or they’ve felt the most intense feeling that they've found each other. I don’t know the answer. Unless, maybe, I’m the one who experienced it. Some of my friends believed that partners regardless of gender can make the spiritual and social commitments necessary to found a family.

Are they a normal or not?. The question that always rose in our class discussion. My professor once told us that abnormality is defined as when a person or behavior is above or below the norms. Well she’s right. But I think the issue here is not to judge or to be judged, but hear then these issue as to keep our mind wide open. Those persons involved were neither a victim nor a proud one. They have their own reasons or might be confusions that they’d struggled to fight inside to themselves. They are also human that needs to understand and be understood in a way that they are still be accepted. I’m not fond of these things. I’m not advocating or even inclining to this. I am writing about this for the reason that these persons are still children of God. They belong to a place where love and understanding are innate.

Our life is love, and peace, and tenderness; bearing one with another, and forgiving one another, and not laying accusations one against another, but praying for one another, and helping one another up with a tender hand. --Isaac Pennington, 1667


5 comments:

Anonymous said...

"understanding is the first step to acceptance, and only with acceptance can there be recovery"

Anonymous said...

elow vhanz po 2...

no comment..hehehe..char!kung san cla masaya teh!suportahan nato cla dba???...

Anonymous said...

we all have a place to live here on earth,,,....i think it is everyone's duty to redirect our friends who are loosing their way....

I want to make an organization for our he/she, she/he peeps.....join me..",)

Anonymous said...

hello there.

for sure the one who made this blogs knows my status now..and she made this when I revealed..maybe....

I am a fan of this same sex relationship, and even I, dont know at first why I involved in this matter,.lets just say Yes I got sometimes attracted to girls but,I'm not getting seriously into it but I gEz it moved to where we called love?..

I was afraid when I opened this issue to one of my friend.thinking that judgement or discrimination will be the next thing I might heard to her..It was so very hard for me coz I was also then a discriminator of this issue"gkaon lng nako akong gnasulti" yah its a lesson for me..

you shouldn't judge people like us coz gender sometime's doesn't play vital role in love but love plays even without a gender.

just respect
share love and
understand,

thank u.

hunter_girl said...

If people will only learn one thing..."RESPECT", then this issue might not be an issue at all.

If people can't accept this kind of relationship nor they can't understand it, just learn to respect those people who choose to be true to themselves and to others. As what you've said, we are all children of God, we all deserve respect from other people regardless of our preference or gender.

If God doesn't judge these people, then who we are to judge them?

By the way I'm also one of them...I'm just being true to myself and i think there's nothing wrong about that. If people can't respect, understand and accept that, maybe they're not normal...


Ang cute ni vhanz..ahihihi...love you vhanz... :)

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