Same Sex Relationship

Same sex relationship is very rampant nowadays. A gay, bisexual, transgendered, and a girl to girl, boy to boy and lesbian relationship. It is often ask, why is it possible to happen?. Maybe there are unresolved issues that they’ve just find an outlet to divert or exert in such behavior. Or maybe in the family background, on how they brought up. Or in their environment?. Or they’ve felt the most intense feeling that they've found each other. I don’t know the answer. Unless, maybe, I’m the one who experienced it. Some of my friends believed that partners regardless of gender can make the spiritual and social commitments necessary to found a family.

Are they a normal or not?. The question that always rose in our class discussion. My professor once told us that abnormality is defined as when a person or behavior is above or below the norms. Well she’s right. But I think the issue here is not to judge or to be judged, but hear then these issue as to keep our mind wide open. Those persons involved were neither a victim nor a proud one. They have their own reasons or might be confusions that they’d struggled to fight inside to themselves. They are also human that needs to understand and be understood in a way that they are still be accepted. I’m not fond of these things. I’m not advocating or even inclining to this. I am writing about this for the reason that these persons are still children of God. They belong to a place where love and understanding are innate.

Our life is love, and peace, and tenderness; bearing one with another, and forgiving one another, and not laying accusations one against another, but praying for one another, and helping one another up with a tender hand. --Isaac Pennington, 1667

My Cogito

In order for me to be truly happy with other people,

I have to learn first how to be contented and being happy alone.

It is only when I become in touch with myself that

I realize how important it is to be a whole person

before sharing my life with someone else.

To the next leveL

I am thrilled that I have made this decisions for it means that

I am going to experience a change in my life. And this change is for the better.

I can finally begin to get answers on the things that cause me worry or bring me happy.

It's always by choice. I know that I am the author of my own life story and that my own thoughts would shape my destiny...

I am not strong enough to handle this kind of problems that is why there’s a lot of defense mechanisms appear. But this my way of thinking absorbs to challenge my optimism. There will be some opportunities and offers to enhance and enrich my life.

However, I need to be alert to these possibilities, and if I allow disappointment to take hold I could miss out altogether. And even more importantly, I must guard against the loss of what I already have.

I always consult above whatever the decisions I made and I know that He would always give me and offer something extraordinary. I know that everything happens was for a real possible purpose.